Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

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Most asked

Which device should I start with?

For sensitivity alone, start with the Your-Skin Cone. To grow new skin, use the TLC Tugger or the TLC-X. Ron's top pick is the TLC-X with TLC Selects and strap tension.

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I know we have created a dizzying array of variations and we could probably present them more logically. Let me try to sum up our 3 main options:

1) You can make your existing skin “act” like a foreskin today with our Your-Skin Cone. It keeps your skin rolled forward over the glans so the glans and adjacent mucosa can get more supple and sensitive. You’ll notice changes within a few weeks. Stop wearing it 24/7 and you’ll get back to the old dull state in no time. If you can temporarily force shaft skin over the glans while flaccid, then this should work for you.

2) You can make your skin expand, growing new skin cells between the old ones, by Tugging. Restoring slack skin gives protection for the mucosa plus it adds the awesome frictionless gliding action of the slack skin during manipulation and intimacy. Our regular TLC Tugger is what I used in order to grow about an inch of new permanent skin per year. I used a knee strap during the day (including at work), and a shoulder strap in bed. How to Tug. If you can temporarily force shaft skin over the glans while flaccid, then this should work for you.

3) Our newer TLC-X Tugger does what the regular TLC Tugger does, but it also gives a strapless tension option when you use its extensible feature. You’ll have fewer excuses to skip a day, like in summer shorts weather. The interchangeable Pusher sections give you the ultimate control over your skin’s roll-over point, for the most natural-looking result. How to Tug. If you can temporarily force shaft skin over 1/3 of the glans while erect, then this should work for you.

All our gear offers the tightest taper and is made from soft food-grade latex-free silicone. We have our 30-day money-back guarantee, plus our warranty.

For a guaranteed fit, see our sizing examples.

See the note below. The strapped TLC Tugger kit is what I used to get the results you see in the before/after pics on our site. I think my more recent innovation of the TLC-X is capable of giving an even better cosmetic outcome, for reasons discussed here: https://ForeskinRestoration.vBulletin.net/forum/bi-directional-tension/24437-spacers-vs-pushing-rod?p=24504#post24504

Our new TLC Selects spacer disks system works with the TLC-X to let you alter the device length to effectively target your FFRP (see prior link) as you gain slack. See attached GIF animation. To put this into action you need the TLC Selects expansion disks for the TLC-X. These give you 7 increments of 3mm each which should take you through about 2 years. Another piece that’s 24mm long gives you 2 more years of gradual device lengthening.

The TLC-X also adds strapless options like Rubber Bands and Springs. I do think it’s a good idea to use straps or weights when possible. Strapless tugging is convenient but there is no “free lunch.” As opposed to the TLC-X’s strapless modes (fixed, spring, rubber band) you will find that USING an external weight or strap means you can apply the device in a more relaxed manner so you will get a more comfortable wrinkle-free application with fewer attempts.

Going strapless/weightless on the other hand means that all the tension your outer-facing skin will feel is that which you trap DURING application. So you’ll roll skin up and through some sleight-of-hand hold it there taut while applying the retaining cone. However, the tension that’s sufficient to cause growth is very gentle, so this is TOTALLY something you can do. I’m just giving you a heads up that there is a physical reason strapless/weightless is a bit more challenging.

So if you want a recommendation it’s: TLC-X TLC Selects Strap Tension

We call this the TLC-X Extensible kit. Additional straps and the optional 24mm TLC Selects piece might be needed eventually.

That said, I got my results with the regular strapped tugger as I said.

How do I measure my glans to get the right size?

Measure your glans width at its widest point, flaccid and erect, using a straight ruler from side to side. The How to Measure page has examples.

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Measure your glans width at its widest point, both flaccid and erect, with a straight ruler from side to side. Our How to Measure page walks you through it with examples.

Why doesn’t my cone stay on?

The top cause is too much tension, so keep it light. Also start with clean skin and a clean device, wear briefs rather than boxers, and check that you have the right size.

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The Your-Skin Cone by itself is NOT meant to be worn with boxers because the fabric shears at the lip of the cone and pries it loose. – Is the device and your skin free of slippery residue? Some soaps contains moisturizing ingredients that leave a trace. The cone needs to be squeaky clean. You can go in the stall at mid-day and wipe it with a wet paper towel. – Are you a severe grower? Some guys whose erect size is much larger than their flaccid state find that their skin is slack while flaccid and just doesn’t pull back on the cone to keep it gripping. We would comp your shipping if you wanted to try that as an add-on to a recently purchased Your-Skin Cone. The reason to go with a smaller size would be if the wide end was getting pried loose by clothing or bedding, or if you couldn’t get your fingers in close enough to wedge your skin into the cone.

Feel free to trim the cone you have so you can get a custom fit with less back-and-forth time in the mail. Email us for the best methohd. If you wreck it using my technique I’ll replace it.

“If the cone is too wide, you may find the fabric of your clothes or bedding is prying it loose, or you may not be able to get your fingers in close to neatly tuck your skin into the cone. If you want the wide end of the cone narrower, you could trim it with sharp scissors. Start by flipping it inside out and beveling the outside edge (that was inside before you flipped it). Then reverse it again and bevel the (real) outside edge if you like. Keep flipping and removing a tiny bit until it’s smooth and the right size. Wear it for a while each time before reducing further. The most popular fit is when the inside diameter of the wide end is 90% – 100% of your erect glans width How to Measure. If you wreck it I’ll replace it.”

One other thing I’ve gathered from other users is that some men tend to have an erect state that’s very much larger than the flaccid state. So while flaccid they sometimes have trouble getting the Your-Skin Cone device to hang on because the shaft acts as if it’s being pulled into the body and the skin tube sort of rolls outward and lets the device drop. It takes up the slack and helps the Your-Skin Cone hang on by giving it a matching surface to interface with.

The number one reason for difficulty is excess tension. The tugging will feel novel but should not be uncomfortable. – First thing is keep tension light. Gentle tension will grow new skin. – We assume for tapeless devices that you have enough slack to let temporarily force skin over the glans while flaccid. – Start with a freshly washed device and skin. – Roll as much skin onto the Tugger body to be gripped as you can manage, high up to the pointy end of the Tugger. – In dry weather consider dabbing a faint smear of water or saliva on the bunched-up skin before applying the retaining cone. This dusts away any loose skin cells which fight gripping like traction-robbing gravel beneath your tires. – To adjust for keeping tension light: Start with zero added tension and sneak the setting higher every few days until getting through 4 straight hours is a challenge. – If you’ve been tugging and it’s loosening, maybe stop and re-apply after cleaning the gripping surfaces. Your skin will be sloughing off cells. Cell walls dissolve into fatty emollients that interfere with grip. I accomplished this cleaning on rare occasions by taking a wet paper towel into the stall at work. – Wear loose pants. Consider using a loin cloth like I show in one of the videos to prevent friction between your device and your pants or your leg. For a strap setup that works both seated and walking, let the strap bear from the front of the knee instead of the side.

Consider re-measuring for best fit. Supply us your glans width (flaccid and erect) and forced erect coverage number (see How to Measure) and we can check if you have the best size.

Regarding the slack in the demo, I had been tugging for 4 years (mostly with a tapeless tugger) when we shot that. I was not trying to show the right tension, so the main demo is me wearing a Tugger pulled way too tight. Some other videos on our instructions page show how to adjust straps:

How much tension should I use?

Gentle tension. Follow the 4-Hour Rule: use the most tension you can wear comfortably for 4 hours during the day (8 hours at night), and back off if you can't make it.

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I believe in persistent gentle tension rather than a short-interval high-stress regimen. I think regardless of the method you continue with, you should wear the Your-Skin Cone during all non-tugging hours. With persistent gentle tension, stress on the cells creates chemical signals that eventually trigger cell division. When that happens (not necessarily while the tension is applied) a “parent” splits into two “daughter” cells, and the two daughter cells must situate themselves in the 3D matrix of cells in roughly the space formerly occupied by the parent cell. After the division, the cells swell and each grows to be a full-sized cell. If your skin is constrained into the desired elongated shape at the time divisions occur, then the tendency will be for the daughter cells to orient themselves in the elongation direction, rather than at random, and the skin tissue will gradually conform to that constraining shape in due time. See historic Chinese Foot Binding for non-tugging examples of constraint conformance. So for a natural-looking result, ALWAYS wear at least the Your-Skin Cone to keep your skin rolled comfortably forward over the glans.

For tension, set your target based on getting through 4 hours comfortably during the day (the typical span between trips to the washroom). If you’re doing your best application – rolling the skin up and down to reduce or eliminate skin wrinkles before popping the retaining cone on, and covering as much of the device as is comfortable – then you should back off some tension if you’re not getting through 4 hours, and consider adding some tension if 4 hours seems too easy every time. For night, your setup needs to instead work for 8 hours of course, so it should be less aggressive, but the same scheme is followed.

Gentle tension gets the job done. See The 4-Hour Rule for tension adjustment.

The number that matters is not absolute force, but rather it is stress or pressure that matters. That is, the force divided by the cross-sectional area upon which it acts. Further, the load that is appropriate depends on the time you’ll be wearing it. I can wear 20.5 ounces comfortably, but not for hours at a time.

Relative stress from highest to lowest (assuming a proper fitting device in every case):

– TLC-X with 20.5 oz – TLC-X with strap. – Tugger with strap. – TLC-X strapless.

The difference is insignificant however since gentle tension will grow new skin. Pull too hard and you get a device that loosens or that needs to be removed due to discomfort.

Adjust weight and extension until the device can be worn at least 4 hours at a sitting (8 hours for overnight setup).

How many hours per day should I tug?

About 10 to 12 hours a day. In a 2010 study, men averaging 11 hours daily gained about 3mm of Forced Erect Coverage per month. Plan on 3 to 4 years; benefits start within weeks.

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In 2010 we had 250 men volunteer to carefully log their tugging hours and measure their restoration progress for 6 months. 25 men actually completed the regimen and data logging. On average they tugged 11 hours per day and they improved their forced erect skin-tube reach (see Forced Erect Coverage) by 3mm per month. My prior best estimate had been 1mm per month.

Granted these are numbers from the 25 most dedicated/enthusiastic participants and maybe many of the other guys stopped logging because their progress was bad. Maybe all of them lied, I don’t know, but it’s the most rigorously measured sample I’m aware of.

Back when I did most of my tugging I tried for 24/7 but probably achieved 80% of that. I think the above numbers show 50% is plenty. Whether even fewer hours per day will do anything remains to be seen, but you won’t know unless you measure objectively (see Forced Erect Coverage).

But given the 1mm to 3mm per month forced coverage gain, you can estimate your total time based on your starting state and your goal. One popular goal is to have 100% forced glans coverage while erect, for slack that can be manipulated during sex. Another common goal is 150% FEC for a better shot at slack you can walk around covered with for extended periods. To lie down in bed and wake up still covered with no device might take 250% – 300% FEC.

Short answer: give it at least 3 – 4 years, but the benefits start accruing within weeks.

So how long does this take?

It depends on your starting point, goal, and consistency. Skin staying forward over the corona briefly often takes 6 to 18 months, and staying half covered while walking can take 1 to 3 years. Benefits start right away.

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It depends a lot on where you’re starting from, and how persistent you are. The most important thing is to define your goal, then tug until you hit (and we say tug 10% more, like 50 months becomes 55 months – to account for slight recession of the stretched out skin). This goal needs to be precise so you’ll know when it has happened, like “I can walk from the lockers to the showers and back with flaccid coverage, ten attempts in a row” or “I can go to sleep with no device and wake with glans coverage” or similar clear statement.

With the Your-Skin Cone alone, you should notice a gradual improvement in sensitivity within a month if you keep covered 24/7. You should take “before” pictures. Every few months, try taking a jog without the cone. If you just can’t stand the irritation of your glans banging around in your briefs, you’ll know you’ve made great progress.

For restoring slack skin with the TLC Tugger, the results are harder to predict. Your expectations and goals may shift during the process. A major milestone will be the first time your skin stays rolled forward over the corona by itself for more than a few seconds. It can take from 6 to 18 months to reach that. Getting to where you can walk around with your skin rolled forward and expect it stay there – covering at least half your glans – can take 1 to 3 years. Many tuggers realize the slack skin is adding so much to their pleasure that they just don’t want to stop until they could fool a urologist into thinking they’re intact. Some guys won’t declare themselves done until 6 years or longer.

I added about an inch of slack per year using the TLC Tugger with comfortable tension as close to 24/7 as I could manage. I wore the Your-Skin Cone to keep my skin forward over the glans every non-tugging minute (except for bathing, urination, and intimacy). In 2010 a group of 25 volunteers measured carefully for 6 months and logged their tugging hours. They improved the Forced Erect Reach (see Forced Erect Coverage) of the skin tube by an average of 3mm per month on an average of 11 hours per day under tension.

The benefits begin the day you start, and just keep getting better.

Can I tug at night?

Only you can decide. Test any setup while awake and erect first, never strap toward your leg in bed, and use lighter tension than during the day so it stays comfortable for 8 hours.

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Only you can decide what to risk wearing while you sleep. Test any sleep technique while awake and erect first. Put the device on, get erect, and carefully flop around on the bed to think about worst case scenarios. Google ischemia and broken penis.

If you decide to use a tugging strap in bed, never route it down toward your leg. A nocturnal erection must be allowed to point where it will. Use the shoulder strapping technique.

Only you can decide if tugging in your sleep is a good idea for you. Apply the device, get erect, and carefully flop around on the bed. Think about the worst thing that could happen. If you decide to try it, maybe set an alarm every couple hours the first few nights so you can check things out. Your body should tell you if blood flow is restricted by giving a painful pinching/burring sensation that would wake most people. Google ischemia. Use gentle tension. If you’re not getting through whole nights in comfort, reduce the tension. I recommend 10-12 hours per day under tension and wearing the retaining cone all non-tugging hours.

The devices we make today are better than ever.

Regarding night tugging it’s important to try any sleep technique while awake and erect first, and proceed only if you’re comfortable with the constraints and risks. NEVER tug toward the leg in bed. At night you’ll use a less-aggressive tension setting than during the day because you will want it to stay comfortable for 8 straight hours instead of just the 4 hours you might go during the day between trips to the toilet.

In all cases GENTLE tension must be used. We now have a defined objective measuring scheme called Forced Erect Coverage (FEC /forced-erect-coverage/) so you can confirm that you’re making progress every month using gentle tension. The basic approach is to think of tension as a 4-hour rule. Start with 0 tension, a well-fitted device, and an application with minimal wrinkling. If that stays comfortable for 4 straight hours, then you can sneak the tension up after a day or two. Repeat every few days until getting through 4 hours is a rarity – and that’s too much tension. Back off tto the previous setting.

What is your warranty and return policy?

Every purchase has a 30-day money-back guarantee, silicone devices, straps and canisters carry a 3-month warranty, and our Right-Size guarantee covers sizing if you give accurate measurements. Results can't be guaranteed.

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We can’t guarantee your results, since so much depends on how you were cut and how you use the devices. What we do guarantee:

  • 30-day money-back guarantee on all purchases (shipping and payment-processing fees are non-refundable unless the product is defective or we shipped the wrong thing).
  • Silicone devices, straps and canisters are warranted for 3 months.
  • Right-Size guarantee: give us accurate glans-width measurements (nearest 1/16″ or mm) or ruler photos, and we’ll make sure you get the right size.

Full details are on our Warranty page.

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